Assisted Living Frequently Asked Questions » Getting started
I think my dad needs to be around people more often. When I go to visit him, he seems happy, but when we're together, he talks about being lonely and having nothing to do.
When you visit your father, you bring with you energy and hope. This is likely something that perks him up as soon as he sees you.
Keep in mind that as we grow older, we begin to venture out less and less. Particularly if you're starting to help your dad buy groceries, or if he is no longer driving, what he is saying to you is very real. He's lacking social interaction. It is critical that we be able to connect with other people - even if it's only a friendly smile or a simple "hello."
Your father may wish to investigate senior living communities or independent living, or if he needs more help, an assisted living community may be a good answer for him. If he doesn't want to move, then arranging for chore and companion services would be helpful. Chore workers do things like clean and prepare meals in advance. Companion services can get him out for coffee or a lunch or a favorite activity. Both options give him something to look forward to, and it gives him some social interaction he is lacking.
Consider arranging to have senior transportation services pick him up to visit programs and activities at a nearby senior center, or if he is beginning to have care needs or memory loss, you can arrange to have him visit an adult day center once or more times a week.
Your father needs a reason to get up in the morning. Having something to do or some place to be will likely help him with his outlook on life, and ultimately will improve his wellness.
For assistance with arranging for in-home care or for help choosing a senior housing or care community call CHOICE at 800-361-0138.
Last update: 2007-03-23 15:22
Author: Support
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